[perl #78494] Pipes cause threads to hang on join()

[perl #78494] Pipes cause threads to hang on join()

or on close() in either thread.

close() in one thread blocks until close() is called in the other
thread, because both closes are waiting for the child process to end.

Since we have a reference-counting mechanism for the underlying
fileno, we can use that to determine whether close() should wait.

This does not solve the problem of close $OUT block when it has been
duplicated via open $OUT2, ">&" and $OUT2 is still in scope.